As one of the last surviving full-time Protestant
pastors in Northeast Philly, I get asked to do a lot of funerals. In fact, I think I am to non-member funerals what
Barry Bonds is to home runs and what Donald Trump is to embarrassing Tweets—if anyone’s
keeping score, I may just have the record. And I consider this a blessing. My ancient
Welsh ancestors used to have these guys they called “bards.” Their job was to
tell the stories of the local heroes in poetry and song and make them sound
really terrific. As a modern bard, my job is to tell the story of ordinary folk—everyday
saints—and show how they walked with God and how God touched their lives. The
beauty of remembering the saints is not just that we get inspired by their lives,
but that we see our own selves reflected in their stories. We feel less alone,
and we get to appreciate the grace of God which blesses us with the qualities we
may only recognize in others.
Our Gospel text (Matthew 5: 1-12) begins
by describing the saints as “blessed.” In Greek it’s “makarioi” (makarioi)
This
is a tough word to translate. Some have said that it might be better translated
as “happy” or fortunate.” “Blessed” sounds so holy, doesn’t it? Yet it’s hard
to think of those early Christian martyrs who were tortured and killed for their
faith as being particularly happy or fortunate. This “happiness” isn’t about
being perpetually cheerful, and this “fortunate” isn’t about hitting the Power
Ball. Rather, the saints are those who know that by grace they’ve been gifted
with God’s favor, that God walks with them, and they trust that the good gifts
of God may be experienced in their lives.
This year I’d like to tell you about three
very special saints from my community whose lives illustrate the Gospel.
Blessed
are the meek, for they will inherit the earth (v.5). Ruben Romero was one of the
most humble men I’ve ever known. In his day he was a brilliant and gifted
musician. He played the organ at Faith Lutheran for twenty years and directed
our choir. He steadfastly brushed off compliments about his work and directed
the glory to God. He worked with volunteer singers who weren’t always appreciative
of his musical selections or particularly attentive to his directions. They teased
him for his thick Puerto Rican accent, and sometime I felt like he was trying
to bring order to a group of unruly kindergarten students. Yet never did I hear
him raise his voice or seem the least bit perturbed. Never did I hear a cross
word from his lips. Never did he fail to honor a request. In later years, when he
was confined to a wheel chair and a nursing home because of his Parkinson’s
disease, I never heard a word of complaint from him. He was gracious, thankful,
and always pious. Often I would discover him reading his Spanish Bible, finding
strength in the Word. The nurses at the home always remarked on his patience
and good humor. Even in deep affliction, joy, gratitude, and respect for others
shown on the face of this gentle saint.
Blessed
are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled. (v.6) If Ruben
Romero was blessed for his humility, Charlie Conway was blessed for his irascibility.
Charlie wrestled with his faith. He was a man deeply concerned about
righteousness. There was a right and a wrong and nothing in between in Charlie’s
world. He was a paradox in that he couldn’t believe a literal interpretation of
scripture, yet he couldn’t accept a non-literal interpretation. He challenged
God for allowing evil and sorrow into the world. But like Job, he refused to
curse God and die. He doggedly and steadfastly questioned, but just as doggedly
and steadfastly worshiped. He may have grumbled about changes in liturgy and
music and acceptable morals—and church attire—but he never refused to serve. He
was an usher, a lector, a volunteer behind the scenes, and one of the most
generous men I’ve ever known. Last January, at age 77, he was involved in a
serious auto accident which might’ve taken his life. He continued to wrestle
with God during the last nine months as he fought to regain his health and
vigor. God won the match, as God always does. Charlie became more accepting, more
forgiving, more appreciative. As Shakespeare would say, “Nothing in his life
became him as the leaving of it.” It was an honor and a joy to be with him
these last months, and to see how God was working in his heart.
Blessed
are the pure in heart, for they shall see God. (v.8) Pure in
heart? Bud Markelwith. He had been with Faith Lutheran from the very beginning,
and he was faithful to the end. There was a great simplicity about Bud. He
smiled even when he told you that his knees hurt and it was hard for him to get
around at over ninety years of age. Yet he never missed a Sunday. Affability
radiated from the man even when he was disappointed or frustrated. Rarely have
I known a man so sentimental and affectionate. His greatest concern was for the
welfare of his beloved Jean, his wife of 68 years. He’d be close to tears if he
thought she was hurt in any way, and he was not afraid to cry at the loss of a
friend or family member. He was generous in his estimation of people, and
always quick to share a compliment about others. When his health permitted, he
was the go-to guy. He’d fix what needed fixing, paint what needed painting,
install what needed installing, and never asked to be thanked. I cannot
remember him without an enormous sense of joy.
Why do we look to the saints? Because in
them we have seen Christ. As I always say, our daily job as Christians is to
see Christ in others, and to be Christ for others. We can’t just let the love
of Christ be an abstract concept. It must be a living reality in flesh and
blood. As St. John said, “…those who do not love a brother or a sister whom
they have seen cannot love God whom they have not seen.” (1 John 4:20) Look to
the saints around you, and look for the things of Christ Jesus. When you can
see Christ, you can be Christ.
Thanks for letting me share! Please drop
by again.
With All Saints tomorrow and All Souls tomorrow, I'll be remembering Bud, Charlie, and especially Ruben. I remember when Ruben retired at Faith. There was almost a mourning period. I loved that he wore his choir robe at the organ. Mom is still well, she was up in August for the first time in a long time. Blessings, Scott (Jackson)
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