Tuesday, November 5, 2024

Giving the Right Way (Reflections on Pentecost 25, Year B 2024)

 


He sat down opposite the treasury and watched the crowd putting money into the treasury. Many rich people put in large sums. A poor widow came and put in two small copper coins, which are worth a penny. Then he called his disciples and said to them, “Truly I tell you, this poor widow has put in more than all those who are contributing to the treasury.  For all of them have contributed out of their abundance, but she out of her poverty has put in everything she had, all she had to live on.” (Mark 12:41-44)

My folks were pretty conservative. They didn’t believe in government giveaways, and they thought everyone should just pull their own weight and “yank themselves up by their bootstraps” as the saying goes. They’d lived through the Great Depression, so they weren’t in the mood to hear excuses from folks who couldn’t make their own way into the great American middle class. That is, until my dad lost his job through no fault of his own and our little clan ended up on public assistance.

I have to give my Old Man credit. As embarrassed as he was by using food stamps, he never lost his sense of humor and never lost the faith that some way, somehow, God was going to come through for the Griffiths family and we’d be alright.

And God did. None of us ever got rich by the standards of American capitalism, but we didn’t starve either. We got our daily bread— which is more than a lot of people on this planet get.

Essential faith—a real belief in core values—is what I think about when I read these passages the Revised Common Lectionary has given us for Pentecost 25 (1 Kings 17:8-16 and Mark 12:38-44). Both stories star ladies who aren’t exactly making the Forbes 400 Richest People list. In the First Lesson we have the widow of Zarephath who is just trying to get by as a single mom with a young son when a weird prophet from the other side of the border comes and asks her for a handout.

If it’s been a while since you’ve read 1 Kings, let me give you some back story: The prophet Elijah is on the lamb from his home country (sort of a political refugee, if you will) because he’s been in conflict with the current administration. God is punishing Israel’s King Ahab for his apostacy and wickedness by shutting up the windows of heaven which is causing a draught which leads to a famine which leads to a region-wide economic catastrophe. God provides a little relief for Elijah by letting him hang out by a small stream where he is fed by some charitable ravens who, I guess, drop food on him when they come to the stream for a drink. Unfortunately, the draught goes on, the stream dries up, the birds stop coming, and even the man of God has to go hungry. Yup. The Bible lets us know that sometimes bad things will happen to good, righteous people.

So what’s a prophet of the Lord to do? Elijah skips across the border to the region of Sidon—a land not historically friendly to Israelites—and asks this struggling mother for some assistance. The widow lady doesn’t have two nickels to rub together, and, if you ask me, she should be the last person Elijah should be mooching off of. Nevertheless, even though she is understandably resistant, the widow opens her kitchen to the hungry foreigner. I wonder if she wasn’t obeying an ancient custom of hospitality practiced by folks in the Middle East. There was a custom, still observed by many in the region to this day, that any stranger is to be welcomed and given whatever hospitality can be afforded[i]. I think the widow of Zarephath placed greater honor in doing the right thing by this stranger than she placed on protecting her meager store of provisions. That’s a sign of faith. If she’s going to starve, at least she’ll starve having done an act of mercy.

You have to wonder what was going through the head of the widow lady in the gospel story who dumps all of her pocket change into the temple treasury. What were her values? Did she care more about her relationship with the God to whom everything belongs than she cared about her own wellbeing, or, living as she did in constantly strained circumstances, had she simply learned to trust in God’s goodness?

Jesus contrasts this lady with the scribes who are making some pretty sizeable donations to the temple’s bank account. These guys aren’t living by faith. Instead, they’re making a transaction. They’re saying, “Here’s a ton of money in exchange for social prominence.” Maybe one of them is hoping the priests will add a new wing to the temple and name it after him.

There are good reasons to part with your resources and not-so-good reasons. The scribes were using their temple gifts essentially as bribes. They were showing off and hoping to get prestige, maybe envy, just a tiny bit more power, and some choice seating reservations as a result of parting with cash they could well do without. That’s a pretty unworthy use of the treasure God provides. Of course, I wouldn’t want to ask a poor person to give up her grocery money on the chance that God might bless her more for doing so. Making a sacrifice in the hopes of gain isn’t an offering. It’s a bet—like dropping a quarter in a slot machine. That’s tempting God, and it’s more superstition than faith.

On the other hand, real generosity is a two-fold exercise in faith. First, you’ve got to believe your gift makes a difference. For the widow of Zarephath, she was feeding a hungry man. That’s an act of righteousness in anyone’s book. I like to think the widow with the two little copper coins donated them because she believed in supporting a place of worship where all people, rich or poor, could be told of the mighty acts of God’s love for them. She had to believe what she did was in the furtherance of something greater than herself.

But it’s not enough just to trust your gift will do some good. You also have to trust it won’t do you any harm. The widow who fed Elijah didn’t starve. Neither did her son. I dearly hope the widow who gave the temple treasury all she had was blessed by having her needs met, too. Maybe she had experienced God’s mercy in the past and knew she could trust it in the future.

I’ll have to admit I sometimes question God’s goodness. If you’d asked me in May of 2023 if we’d still be having church this Sunday at Faith Lutheran of Northeast Philly, I wouldn’t have given you good odds based on our financial projections. But God has come through for us. We’ve received new members, and the jar of meal and jug of oil have not yet run out. God has provided resources both financial and spiritual. If ever a time should come when this little congregation must eat its last meal or donate its last coins, I trust we’ll do so faithfully, lovingly, and joyfully.

Keep the faith, my friend, and come back and visit me again.


[i] For a full discussion of this tradition, check out this link: https://www.thetorah.com/article/abraham-and-lots-bedouin-style-hospitality.